如果你活在這個世界上，總是在意別人對你的看法，總是在意你哪些事情沒有做好，總是在意自己不如別人，如果你在意這麼多，那你還怎麼過得快樂呢？How can you be happy if you live in a world where you're always concerned about what other people think of you, about what you're not doing right, about how you're not doing as well as others?我們這一輩子只會年輕一次，不要那麼着急長大，那真的會錯過成長的樂趣，好好地去享受一下青春的活力吧！We will only be young once in our life, don't be so anxious to grow up, it will really miss the fun of growing up, good to enjoy the vitality of youth!
即使這個世界上的事情哪有那麼多值不值得，我想告訴你的是，只要你自己願意，那就一切都值得，所以勇敢地去做自己想做的事吧！Even if there are so many things worth doing in the world, I want to tell you that as long as you are willing, everything is worth it, so be brave to do what you want to do!如果一件事情真的讓你那麼難的話，那麼就閉上眼睛，戴上耳機放一首自己喜歡的音樂，不去看和不去聽這個世界嘈雜的聲音，好好地享受自己的世界。If something is really too hard for you, then close your eyes, put on your headphones and play a piece of music that you like. Turn off the noise of the world and enjoy your own world.
大概你不快樂的原因就是因為，不管去做什麼事情，都更在乎的是結果，而不是其中的過程，因為太在乎結果所以不快樂。Perhaps the reason why you are not happy is that no matter what you do, you care more about the result than the process. Because you care too much about the result, you are not happy.其實我覺得小城市的生活也挺好的，沒有高昂的房租，沒有擁擠的地鐵，週末的時候，有空可以約朋友和愛人出來兜兜風過一個愜意的週末。In fact, I think the life in a small city is quite good. There is no high rent or crowded subway. On weekends, I can go for a ride with my friends and loved ones and enjoy a pleasant weekend.
有人説一個人獨處真的很孤獨，但是那個時候的你也是最自由自在的不是嗎？Some people say that being alone is really lonely, but you are also the most free at that time, aren't you?其實步入婚姻不等於幸福，而一個人的單身也並不意味着他有多麼的不幸，我們自從出生起就是一個人，最終也不可能有人跟我們同時離去，一段好的愛情就像是我們精神上的奢侈品，就算遇不到也沒有關係。In fact, getting married is not equal to happiness, and a person's single does not mean that he has how unfortunate, we have been a person since birth, and it is impossible for someone to leave with us at the same time in the end, a good love is like our spiritual luxury, even if we can not meet it does not matter.
